Our solution was to move him to the guest bedroom so that we could Ferberize (I can't help but think of Cameron & Mitchell from Modern Family!) and not wake Luke in the process. Nolan was like a little champ and responded very well to it. Now, when he wakes at night, he can usually put himself back to sleep even though he does it while moaning. There are nights, however, when we do need to pat & comfort him before he falls back to sleep.
Nolan has been in the guest room in a pack 'n play since January, but last night we thought it was time to move him back into his crib in the nursery. I heard him going his baby moans at some point during the night, but he must have put himself back to sleep because I didn't hear from him again! Their first night reunited in the nursery was a success!!!
Mitchell & Cameron from Modern Family
Ferberizing -- hysterical!!!